Saturday, May 31, 2014

YYC Death Cafe Gets New Hosts....



Dear Death Café Guests:


I’ve had the pleasure of facilitating eight Death Cafes in Calgary over the past year; however, last Sunday’s cafe, on May 25th, was my final Death Café for now.


I invited people to meet for cake and conversation about death, dying, and grief; the stories, wisdom, and courage which I’ve heard from over 350 guests have taught me lessons about life which I now hold dear.


I’m pleased now to hand over the Calgary Death Café forum to two women who have attended the majority of my cafes: Janine Violini and Jamie Whittaker. I’m looking forward to attending, as a participant, the Death Cafes that these compassionate, knowledgeable, and fun women will create.


You’ll be able to contact Janine and Jamie at yycdeathcafe@gmail.com, and their upcoming cafes will be posted on the Death Café website at www.deathcafe.com .


So, what am I going to be doing instead of Death Cafes?  Death and Dying Dinner Parties! These will be meaningful conversations about life, death and dying, but now over dinner - a little more intimate conversations, a little more food.  Actually, a lot more food!

If you would like more information about these new events, stay tuned to this page.

Thank YOU, for participating in one or more Calgary Death Cafes. I applaud your brave quest to understand it means to really live, and die. I hope that your life has been enriched by your experience at Death Café.

I leave you with the quote with which I have ended the Death Cafes:


“Before we can generate compassion and love, it is important to have a clear understanding of what we understand compassion and love to be. In simple terms, compassion and love can be defined as positive thoughts and feelings that give rise to such essential things in life as hope, courage, determination, and inner strength. In the Buddhist tradition, compassion and love are seen as two aspects of the same thing: Compassion is the wish for another being to be free from suffering; love is wanting them to have happiness."  His Holiness the Dalai Lama

My friends, may you be happy.
Warmly
Wendy Kurchak

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Death Cafe is "SOLD OUT" on May 25th


One of the Death Cafes in 2013
If "raising awareness about death and dying, in order to encourage living life to its fullest" is the mandate of a Death Cafe, many Calgarians will be living life more abundantly after May 25th.

That's the date of the next Calgary Death Cafe, and it is now completely full.  It would be "SOLD OUT" except, it's free!

I'm looking forward to spending the afternoon with the registered guests - talking about all things related to death, dying, and grief.

Stay tuned to this site for future Death Cafe events.

Warmly
Wendy Kurchak

Saturday, March 29, 2014

New Death Cafe MAY 25, 2014


Photo: near site of Landsberg Hospice, Bavaria. W.Kurchak
 

Hi Everyone!

With all the the snow we've had in Calgary, perhaps we need to look forward to something which will remind us of hope eternal - a Death Cafe!

For anyone new to this concept, here's the scoop...

Death Cafes are events in which people, often strangers, meet to discuss issues about death, dying and grief. They are not support groups, but opportunities to engage in honest, open, and safe conversations about those topics generally avoided in day-to-day life.

At Death Cafes there is always cake and coffee, and an atmosphere of authenticity as participants share thoughts, feelings and questions about life and death matters.

So, you see, the essential purpose is to increase an awareness of death so that life may be embraced more fully!

The upcoming Death Cafe is:

Date: May 25, 2014
Time: 2 - 4:30 PM
Place: Hospice Calgary Sage Center
           1245 70 Ave SE ( across from Trail Appliances)
           Calgary

Fee: As always, Death Cafes are free of cost, and open to everyone.

HOWEVER, you do need to pre-register so that I know how many cakes to bake!

To save your spot at this Death Cafe, please send your name, and the number of people attending with you, to me at www.yycdeathcafe@gmail.com .

It is ONLY when you receive a reply from me that you can rest assured that your name is on the guest list. There are a limited number of spots at this event, so please register today.

Interested? You can read more about Death Cafe at the official website!

I hope to see you soon for my first Death Cafe of 2014.

Warmly
Wendy Kurchak

At a Death Cafe people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death.

Our objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'.

A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session.

Our Death Cafes are always offered:

- On a not for profit basis

- In an accessible, respectful and confidential space

- With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action

- Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food – and cake
- See more at: http://deathcafe.com/p/what-is-death-cafe.html/#sthash.wCoEqV3r.dpuf



At a Death Cafe people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death.

Our objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'.

A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session.

Our Death Cafes are always offered:

- On a not for profit basis

- In an accessible, respectful and confidential space

- With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action

- Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food – and cake
- See more at: http://deathcafe.com/p/what-is-death-cafe.html/#sthash.wCoEqV3r.dpuf

At a Death Cafe people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death.

Our objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'.

A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session.

Our Death Cafes are always offered:

- On a not for profit basis

- In an accessible, respectful and confidential space

- With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action

- Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food – and cake
- See more at: http://deathcafe.com/p/what-is-death-cafe.html/#sthash.wCoEqV3r.dpuf

At a Death Cafe people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death.

Our objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'.

A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session.

Our Death Cafes are always offered:

- On a not for profit basis

- In an accessible, respectful and confidential space

- With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action

- Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food – and cake
- See more at: http://deathcafe.com/p/what-is-death-cafe.html/#sthash.wCoEqV3r.dpuf

At a Death Cafe people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death.

Our objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'.

A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session.

Our Death Cafes are always offered:

- On a not for profit basis

- In an accessible, respectful and confidential space

- With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action

- Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food – and cake! - See more at: http://deathcafe.com/p/what-is-death-cafe.html/#sthash.wCoEqV3r.dpuf

At a Death Cafe people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death.

Our objective is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'.

A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session.

Our Death Cafes are always offered:

- On a not for profit basis

- In an accessible, respectful and confidential space

- With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action

- Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food – and cake! - See more at: http://deathcafe.com/p/what-is-death-cafe.html/#sthash.wCoEqV3r.dpuf