Monday, February 18, 2013

Relax, I'm just here for the cake at the Death Cafe!

copyright DeathCafe.com


Talking about death won't make it happen.

It's going to happen anyway. 

But it might be that chatting about all sorts of  death and dying issues will create something else - a deeper and richer life!

That's the idea behind the Death Cafe concept. 

Jon Underwood, the fellow championning the movement in the UK, says "the objective of Death Cafe is "to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives".

Are you looking for a new perspective on life?
 What would it be like to live knowing there's a deadline?
What is it that you've always wondered about dying and death?

Well, there's a brand new venue to explore these questions.

On March 10, from 2 to 5 PM,  join us for coffee/tea, cake  and open, relaxed conversation at Self-Connection Books for Calgary's first Death Cafe.

There's no charge, but you do need to RSVP to reserve your place.
wendymariek@gmail.com    

 
Hope to see you soon.
Warmly
Wendy



Saturday, February 16, 2013

Death Cafe - One Big Question

Hi All,

This morning I got up early, 0900hr, to meet a delightful journalist with the Calgary Herald. We talked about the upcoming Death Cafe - Calgary's first.

As I ranted and raved about this very innovative and cool idea to facilitate conversation about all things related to death, I realized that I have many more questions than answers about death..

In fact, I don't have any answers to the following questions:

1. Is there an after-life?
2. What does after-life mean, anyway?
3. What will it be like to be dead?
4. How exactly would I like to die?
5. Can I be sure that my instructions for my funeral will be followed to the "T"?
6. Do I need to worry about offending anyone at my funeral once I'm dead?
7. Do I really want to be cremated and have my ashes thrown over my old property, or do I want to be buried next to my parents in one of the ugliest cemetaries in Canada?
8. If someone told me that I only had 2 months to live, what would I really, actually do?
9. When I die, will I "be" with my dead pets? Dead family members?
10. What if there IS a hell??? Can I do something really quick on the way out to make sure I'm re-routed?

It's a good thing that the Death Cafe is about eating cake, drinking coffee/tea, and exploring all those questions, and others, about death. I don't have to have the answers - it's all one big question.

Come and share the journey.

Sunday, March 10, 2-5 PM at Self-Connection Books in Calgary. There is no charge but I need an RSVP to save your place and make you some cake. wendymariek@gmail.com

Warmly
Wendy

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Calgary's First Death Cafe

Death Café. It’s just like any other café; coffee, cake, but with a little something extra – death. 
Kurtynik and Beecher's Mr.Reaper
 
Well, conversation about death.
 
Calgary’s first ever Death Café is on Sunday, March 10, from 2 to 5 PM at Self-Connection Books on Bowness Road, NW.
 
The event will kick off with the internationally acclaimed short film, “Mr. Reaper’s Really Bad Morning”, with an introduction by Calgarian filmmakers Kevin Kurytnik and Carol Beecher to their innovative animation.
 
Following the screening, guests will be invited to participate in an open, free-flowing conversation facilitated by Wendy Kurchak, who is certified through the Association of Death Education and Counselling, and has over ten years’ experience in the field.
 
It’s the stimulating, thought-provoking discussions which are the draw for the hundreds of people, from all walks of life, attending the Death Cafés sweeping the United Kingdom, Canada, the US, and now into Brazil. In relaxing settings, the spontaneous topics are directed by the participants, making each Death Café a new and enlightening experience.
 
Jon Underwood, the UK Death Café guru, sees these events as a platform for “increasing awareness of death with a view toward helping people make the most of their (finite) lives.”  He believes that if people would explore and discover new perspectives about death and dying, and feel more comfortable about the inevitable, “the world would be a much, much better place.”
 
Lizzy Miles, a social worker and hospice volunteer in Ohio, has spearheaded the Death Café experience in the United States. She says,
 
“The beauty of the Death Café is that it brings people together who want to talk about the “taboo” topic of death (and all that it entails).  Many of the attendees reported in their surveys that in addition to telling their own story, they found comfort in hearing the stories of others.  The participants who have come to the Death Café events have a wide variety of backgrounds.  The diversity of experiences, beliefs and opinions contributes to the in-depth discussions that we have.”
 
Interesting concept, isn’t it? Coffee, home baking, the opportunity to talk freely about death, and maybe even make the world, or at least Calgary, a much better place. 
 
There is no charge for this event; however, participants do need to reserve their seat for the café. Email Wendy at wendymariek@gmail.com with your name and a phone number by Wednesday, March 6.
 
For stories and more information about Death Café, check out the websites at http://www.deathcafe.com/ or http://impermanenceatwork.org/index.html.

Web Resources for "Chill Out - The Scoop about Anxiety"

Welcome!

"Chill Out - The Scoop about Anxiety" is a session which I'm presenting in Alberta this month:

  •  the North Central Teacher's Convention in Edmonton,
  •  the City of Calgary Teacher's Convention, and 
  • the Central Teacher's Convention in Red Deer.   ( I'm also doing an exciting workshop in Red Deer - "Grief in the Classroom"; using expressive arts with grieving kids.)
Comprehensive session notes are easily available just by dropping me a request at wendy@educationingrief.ca.  

In the meantime, here are the websites which are discussed during the sessions. They are just a few of the multitude of web resources about childhood anxiety. 

A reminder that many of these resources also have information about other mental health issues which may affect our students. It might be helpful to bookmark these sites:
Creating calm classrooms, and empowering your students to discover, implement and experience strategies to cope with their anxieties, are just two means by which you will positively impact the health and life success of your students!

Let's stay in touch; let me know what else I can do to support you in your work with your students!

Warmly
Wendy 
wendy@educationingrief.ca